Does this sound like you?

Feel like a fraud or worried people will discover you’re not so pulled together?

You know something is off, but can’t put your finger on it?

Do you put other people’s needs before your own and then feel resentful or taken advantage of?

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you’ve no control over your life?

Big decisions cause you to break out in a sweat?

At the end of the day do you feel exhausted, but feel like you’ve accomplished nothing?

Wish you had more time or balance in your life?


I get it.  We all feel self doubt, negativity, and frustration at some point in our lives.  It’s when the stuck feeling becomes the gorilla in the room, that we need to act. 

life coaching can help


What You Can Achieve

  • Make confident choices easily

  • Discover how to use your strengths to achieve your goals

  • Focus on what’s right for you, reducing stress

  • Attract more positive opportunities and people

  • Accomplish your goals
  • Hear your intuition and learn to use it
  • Get clear about what’s most important to you
  • Manifest the life you want by changing how you think
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Meet Kirstin

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Are there moments when you feel completely whole? You know that feeling of deep peace coupled with a bubbling joy? Three things make me feel invincible, like I'm a superhero: the moment when the beauty of my watercolor painting unfolds, being completely engaged with my daughters and lost in the moment, and when a friend has made me feel seen, heard and valued.

These moments are why I became a life coach.

I want every one to embrace and know their inner superhero. Your's is just waiting to break out (and choose her kickin' outfit!)



Every coach is different.  My style is very much like talking to your best girlfriend, especially if she’s an engaged listener, holds no judgements, encourages you to stretch and grow, plus celebrates your successes.  These testimonials will give you the inside scoop and a bit of insight about working with me.


Take Control of Your Life

Life doesn’t have to be the way it always has been.  The future is yours to create.  Imagine if you could live with a sense of purpose and direction? 

Interested in learning more?  Book a Discovery call.  In 30 minutes you'll get relief from your most pressing issue.  No hassle, no obligation, no hard sell.



What's New

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You can change your self-image in less than 2 seconds, by simply shifting how you talk about you and others.